HERE ARE SOME TIPS ABOUT DEVELOPING CROSS-CULTURAL ADAPTATION SKILLS
Learn the language by using it. Language is your key to involvement in your new culture. Even if you can't speak perfectly, your attempts to communicate in the native language will be appreciated. Remember that understanding others and making yourself understood in a new language requires more rephrasing, repeating, and rechecking than usual.
Don't assume that you know everything about what is happening around you. Listen and observe carefully, paying special attention to nonverbal clues that give insight into the process of cross-cultural communication.
A natural tendency to immediately attach a good or bad label to all you observe or experience can be a major stumbling block to understanding and participating in a new culture. Observe and describe, but accept others on their integrity before evaluating.
Empathize that means to put yourself in the other person's place and look at the situation from his/her perspective. This is especially important when cultural differences are involved in the situation. Recognize that your anxiety is natural. Communication and adjustment across cultures is not easy; there is often a stress factor involved in interaction between people from differing cultures. Openness, a willingness to take risks and an ability to laugh at one's mistakes can help you deal productively with anxiety.
Be honest. If you are confused about something or if misunderstandings arise, it is usually best to admit your confusion rather than pretend that everything is all right.
Become involved. Show your willingness to learn about the people and culture by participating in the daily life of your community. Seek out opportunities to share yourself and your background with your hosts whenever possible. Often by seeking to try new things (such as foods) and experiences (such as traditional dances), you can become more actively involved in host community life.
TIPS ABOUT OBTAINING HELP
Do not be afraid, hesitant or embarrassed to ask for help with your problems. No one is perfect, nobody knows all the answers, and everyone needs assistance at one time or another.
Be reasonable and do not expect miracles. It takes time to make a complete analysis of your problems and come up with the solutions.
Seek help only from the one person best qualified to give it: tutor, instructor, advisor, counselor, administrator, minister, or doctor.
Ask for help as soon as you realize you need assistance. In general, most people are very glad to help.
Accept information and advice about your difficulties with an open mind. Learn from your mistakes instead of taking offense or becoming hostile at being corrected or criticized.
Show consideration for the person trying to help you. Keep your appointment and be punctual. Cooperate in answering questions completely and listen to what he/she says.
Ask for assistance with a problem after you have made a serious effort to solve it on your own. People are especially willing to help you when they see evidence you really tried your best before asking for assistance. Remember that others can offer information and guidance, but you must choose which solution is best for you.
Please contact the Brookhaven College counselors in the Advising/Counseling Center, Room S113, if you need further assistance.
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Last Updated July 6, 2007